What Happened to Jay’s Wife?
When people think about estate planning, they usually focus on what happens after they die. They often overlook what will happen if they are alive but unable to manage their own affairs, also known as being incapacitated. Failing to plan for this can lead to families needing court involvement to manage a loved one’s affairs. This applies to everyone, regardless of age or wealth. Recently, Jay Leno had to seek court involvement to manage his and his wife’s estate planning due to her incapacity.
What Is a Conservator?
A conservator (or guardian) is a person appointed by the court to manage the financial affairs of someone who can’t do it themselves, known as the ward. The conservator handles the ward’s money, property, and other financial or legal matters. They must regularly report to the court to show they are fulfilling their duties. Appointing a conservator involves petitioning the court, attending a hearing, and getting a judge’s approval, which can be time-consuming and costly.
Jay Leno’s Petition to the Court
In January 2024, Jay Leno petitioned the court to be appointed conservator of his wife Mavis Leno’s estate due to her dementia and impaired memory. This made it impossible for her to create her own estate plan or participate in joint planning. Jay Leno wanted to set up a living trust and other estate documents to ensure her care if he dies before her. On April 9, 2024, the court granted his petition, finding that a conservatorship was necessary and that he was suitable for the role.
Although the outcome was favorable, it took several months and involved ongoing court requirements to manage Mrs. Leno’s finances. Planning ahead could have saved time and hassle.
Important Takeaways
While this might seem relevant only to the rich and famous, anyone could face a similar situation, though with less money and property involved. Here are key lessons from the Lenos’ experience:
- Spouses Can’t Automatically Step In: Many believe that being married means their spouse can automatically manage their finances or healthcare decisions if they become incapacitated. This isn’t true. After turning 18, no one, not even a spouse, can manage these affairs without prior consent (through estate planning documents) or court involvement.
- Estate Planning Documents Are Essential: If Mrs. Leno had a financial power of attorney giving her husband authority to create an estate plan, Mr. Leno might not have needed to petition the court. This document, along with a will or living trust, could have specified her wishes ahead of time.
- Sometimes Probate Court Is Necessary: When someone can’t manage their own affairs and hasn’t created an estate plan, state law steps in to appoint someone to manage their affairs. This process involves delays and costs compared to having a financial power of attorney.
- Having a Plan Is Better Than Relying on State Rules: Conflicts can arise when relying on state rules. Multiple family members may want to manage their loved one’s affairs, leading to disagreements that a judge must resolve. This can delay the process and make it public. If you don’t have a close relationship with your family, an estranged member might end up making decisions for you. Creating an estate plan lets you choose who will act on your behalf.
We can help you regardless of where you are in the estate planning process. Whether you want to ensure your wishes are carried out during all phases of your life or need help with a loved one who can no longer manage their affairs, give me a call.